Child Care?
Now here's a shocking report.
It seems children who spend their time in Day care are more likely to be disruptive in class. Contrary to the Bull-oney being spewed by those who favor the state sponsered raising of children, day cared children do not have better vocabularies, nor do they do better socially than children raised by their parents.
Anyone with any common sense would see this study is right. Older children may be able to deal with being one of ten or a dozen individuals competing for the attention of an adult, but small children don't work that way. How are they going to get better vocabularies when the only people they talk to are each other. There is of course Sesame street, but many day care providers don't think that is stimulating enough for children. It's much better if they fight over toys or swings, or sit quietly waiting for the chaos to stop.
While it's good for children to learn they are not the center of the universe, they usually don't learn this until they reach Middle school. In this way day care children are ahead of the curve.
Several years ago (10+) there was a report on "60 minutes" about day care and families. The reporterette followed 3 families through their day. They also brought in a financial consultant to determine whether day care was financially necessary. In two of the three families they were actually spending more money on day care then one of them was getting paid. It would have been financially benificial for them to stop working and care for their children at home. While all of the mothers said they would love to be home with their children, only one stopped working.
Bottom line is that while some people need day care, many people don't want to take responsibility for raising their children. They refuse to sacrifice their new car, big screen TV's, Donna Karan or Bill Blass clothes, and $100 dinners. They don't want to be stuck at home, there's no one to talk to and nothing to do. These are things however to be thought of BEFORE procreating. Unless you are ready to put you life on hold until your children are old enough to care for themselves, maybe you should just go dancing instead.
It seems children who spend their time in Day care are more likely to be disruptive in class. Contrary to the Bull-oney being spewed by those who favor the state sponsered raising of children, day cared children do not have better vocabularies, nor do they do better socially than children raised by their parents.
Anyone with any common sense would see this study is right. Older children may be able to deal with being one of ten or a dozen individuals competing for the attention of an adult, but small children don't work that way. How are they going to get better vocabularies when the only people they talk to are each other. There is of course Sesame street, but many day care providers don't think that is stimulating enough for children. It's much better if they fight over toys or swings, or sit quietly waiting for the chaos to stop.
While it's good for children to learn they are not the center of the universe, they usually don't learn this until they reach Middle school. In this way day care children are ahead of the curve.
Several years ago (10+) there was a report on "60 minutes" about day care and families. The reporterette followed 3 families through their day. They also brought in a financial consultant to determine whether day care was financially necessary. In two of the three families they were actually spending more money on day care then one of them was getting paid. It would have been financially benificial for them to stop working and care for their children at home. While all of the mothers said they would love to be home with their children, only one stopped working.
Bottom line is that while some people need day care, many people don't want to take responsibility for raising their children. They refuse to sacrifice their new car, big screen TV's, Donna Karan or Bill Blass clothes, and $100 dinners. They don't want to be stuck at home, there's no one to talk to and nothing to do. These are things however to be thought of BEFORE procreating. Unless you are ready to put you life on hold until your children are old enough to care for themselves, maybe you should just go dancing instead.
